المقال باللغة الإنجليزية:The relation between man and woman
Written by: Dr. Khattab,Theeb Abdullah
Previous Jordanian MP
Pediatrician
Mosque Preacher
In The Name of Allah Most Gracious Most Merciful
Praise be to God, prayer and peace be upon the Messenger of Allah
(And of His Signs is that He has created mates for you from your own kind, that you may find peace in them, and He has set between you love and mercy, Surely there are Signs in this for those who reflect) (Surat Al-Rum 21)
The relationship between a man and a woman in the materialistic secular civilization was established on the basis of sex, where the man had sexual intercourse with the woman at the side of the road as if he had eaten a falafel sandwich (a sandwich) and the matter ends, as if it was nothing! while Islam religion honored that relationship and made it a relationship of affection, mercy and serenity within the framework of marriage and in the rules of Sharia within a harmonious family and a dignified life, and if the relationship between a man and a woman was based on sexual pleasure, the man would have moved away from his old wife and felt alienated from her, and she would also alienate him when he became old. But we see him clinging to her more and more in affection, peace and mercy in a home that takes care of children in sympathy and cooperation.
I met a juvenile judge in the United States of America and during a tour with him I saw the children who were taken from their mothers because the father is unknown and because the mother got lost in forbidden relationships and in the darkness of drugs, she is no longer able to take care of her child and has no desire to do so.
I spoke with that judge and how Islam forbids communication between a man and a woman except within the limits of Sharia and in a marriage bond that would be a sound start to give birth of righteous offspring. And he replied; in America we have started the calling for the prohibition of sexual relations between a man and a woman outside the marriage relation, but it seems that this call has disappeared amid the noise of materialistic media and freedom of chaos that plunged man into bestiality.
For decades, materialistic civilization has been calling for uncontrolled and irresponsible freedom between both genders, letting young people do what they want so that they do not suffer from depression and psychological, so what was the result:
Young people run after their desires, panting after their instincts, in the shadow of a spiritual emptiness, so one of them remains panting and panting after instinct, and is not satisfied, and does not find true happiness. Man has reached a situation where he is confused in what to do with himself in order to find comfort and happiness. And how did he have that, and his devil guided him to change God’s creation so that he would land at the bottom of the lowest , the woman began to imitate the man, as she underwent surgeries and took hormones and drugs to be like a man.
And the man began imitating women, and for that purpose he underwent surgeries and took hormones and mendicant that satisfy his craving for this anomaly, following the steps of Satan by doing that (---I will surely command them to alter God’s creation, Whoever takes Satan for a confidant and guardian instead of God has indeed suffered a manifest loss) (An-Nisa' – 119)
Likewise, the person who strays from the law of God, which creat him in the best way, will lose a clear loss and will sink to the bottom of the lowest.
The Messenger of God, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, cursed women who imitate men and cursed men who imitate women ((quoted from Ibn Abbas, may God be pleased with them), he said: (The Messenger of God, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, cursed men who imitate women, and women who imitate men) Narrated by Al-Bukhari.
Islam has made it clear that a man can only come to his wife in the light of a marital relationship based on purity and love, and it is forbidden to come to his wife while she is menstruating, and he does not have intercourse with his wife except from the place of procreation ((Growth of the baby)).
(And they ask you about menstruation. Say, "It is harm, so keep away from wives during menstruation. And do not approach them until they are pure. And when they have purified themselves, then come to them from where Allah has ordained for you. Indeed, Allah loves those who are constantly repentant and loves those who purify themselves.") (sūrat l-baqarah) (222)
For the fact that Islam is keen that the relationship between a man and a woman is based on the requirements of which God has made the nature of mankind, in a marital frame far from sexual, psychological and social diseases , The Messenger of God, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, told us that a day will come to humanity in which a man will be satisfied in his relation with another man and women will be satisfied with other women, as stated in an Hadith narrated by Anas Ibn Malik on the signs of the Judgment Day; the man will be satisfied with men and women will be satisfied with women (which is called today by homosexuality that is spreading more and more these days).
Because of the severity of the man, the man practiced sodomy with the man, the horror of this matter, and his seriousness on humanity. The Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace, ordered us to kill the one who does it, and the one to whom it is done. Because it is narrated by Ibn Abbas that the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said: “Whoever you find doing the action of the people of Lot, kill the one who does it, and the one to whom it is done.” Sunan Ibu Dawood
And God Almighty said on the people of Lot who came to this heinous act;
(When our command came, We turned the cities upside down and rained down on them clustered stones of baked clay) ( Surat Hood Verse 82)
And the Messenger of God, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, warned of the spread of obscenity (adultery and homosexuality) at the end of time among the people, as it came in his Hadith that was mentioned in the Sunnan of Ibn Majah
(--- Immorality never appears among a people to such an extent that they commit it openly, but plagues and diseases that were never known among the predecessors will spread among them)
The immorality has been publicized and declared, and gay people nowadays owned slogan and a flag by which they are known, and it appears on the media in many parts of the world and they are honored where conferences are held for them, such as the one that was held recently in Spain, where many gay people from many parts of the world attend it.
Obscenity spread and sexual, psychological and social diseases appeared, which were not known before, as the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, told. These diseases such as AIDS, syphilis, and last but not least, the emergence of the so-called monkeypox, which began to spread widely among homosexuals, especially after that aforementioned conference that was held for homosexuals in Spain, as when they returned to their countries, they spread this disease (monkeypox) in their countries .
[This disease is caused by a virus that is transmitted between animals such as dogs, therefore take a deep look on how the Messenger of God, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, forbade raising dogs in homes due to the seriousness of the diseases they transmit, including this disease]
And what increases the danger of this disease is that it is difficult to detect by laboratory tests, and therefore monkeypox virus may be transmitted to others by donating blood as well.
Despite warnings from international organizations about this disease and other diseases that spread among homosexuals, all of it to no avail.
And humanity has no choice but to return to the requirements of which God has made the nature of mankind (in the best creation) if it wants to straighten its matter and live a happy life, and that will not be done except by following the Holy Qur’an (Surely this Quran guides to what is most upright, and gives good news to the believers who do good that they will have a mighty reward.) (Verse 9 Al-Israa) and following the guidance of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, who teaches us the Book and wisdom.
(Allah grants wisdom to whoever He wills. And whoever is granted wisdom is certainly blessed with a great privilege. But none will be mindful ˹of this˺ except people of reason) (Al Baqara verse 269).
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